Do you really know yourself???

Over the years I have realized that time by yourself allows you to get to know yourself. When you are around others we are more prone to compare ourselves to our peers. Or we began to model ourselves behind someone else. You were fearfully, wonderfully and uniquely created, set apart. We are not meant to be just like anyone else. Carbon copies are meant for paper not people.

Take time for yourself get to know you what you like what you don’t like. Learn your ways what annoys you and what makes you smile. Discover your favorite past times, explore a new area in your city, find a new hobby, learn you. If you spend all your time with someone else be it a friend a significant other you will never know yourself and who you are without the addition of someone else.

I know people who have never been without a mate, they don’t know themselves without having a partner. The sad thing is I don’t know them without that significant other.

Allow yourself and the people around you to get to know the real true you.


Gods Timing > Biological Clock


So many times we hear from doctors and medical professionals that after the age of 35 women are more at risk for producing children with physical and mental disabilities. I didn’t realize until now that this statement affected my thoughts about not wanting children. After years of putting my life on hold and assisting with raising my nieces and nephew I had thoughts of not having children. It was hard for me to considering having my own children because of some of the difficulties that came along with my nieces, and the fact that I was single Sally for so long and still am single. As each year goes by and I get older or more mature as I like to say, I see everyone around me having children getting married creating families and most of them are younger than me. Over the past 5 years baby fever has definitely hit me hard, the problem is I’m still single. I’m happy being me just waiting for the right person.

At this point in time most women would say their biological clock is ticking and they need to hurry up and have children. I believe that God will allow it all to happen in His timing.

For the women out there who are watching that biological clock you’re wasting time, focus on what’s positive in your life, your career,hobbies,great friends and family, god-child and most importantly your relationship with God. God will provide in His timing,prayer and faith should be your focus not watching a biological clock.



People will say and do things that will annoy you and get under your skin. I just allowed a situation to bother me and get under my skin, I allowed it to mess with my joy. I had to pause, and pray. I wasn’t mu normal silly happy go lucky self. As much as I want to go off and curse, I know it won’t solve the problem it won’t change what has already occurred. After conversing with my sisters and realized I wasn’t alone in my feelings I felt better. I can now give a positive clap back and let it go, besides its Friday Summer time Chi, Im trying to enjoy myself and I don’t need negative distractions. Just remember “Every clap back doesn’t have to be negative”. Respond it Peace so you can keep your peace. 

Take Action T-Shirts 

Normally Today I would post my favorite style or my personal but today I wanted to put action in my style , put Jesus in today’s style post. Due to what’s going on in our country right now we need to put Jesus at the center of it all.

Check out these shirts from Faithful Chics Boutique I love their shirts I have one myself also today they are having a sale.

Here are a few of my favorites, they apply to what’s going on right now.


It’s your Choice 

How are you striving to make your Monday great, not just your day but your week, month, year, your life as a whole? Everything we do and say has a great affect on our daily life. All the decisions you make determines how things will turnout for you in every area of life. It’s important to make quality decisions so that you will have quality life everyday. I learned a long time ago that what you speak into your life happens, you must speak what you want. I know what your thinking if I just speak a couple million dollars in my pocket will it be there,No it won’t just magically appear. Although speaking that you will be a millionaire can and will happen as long as you are working towards that goal. But let’s take this down to a daily goal. If your Monday goal is to be happy and get through the day wessith peace and no issues, then guess what no matter what crosses your path it will happen. Yet your actions and attitude determine how well your day will go. Somethings can come across your path at work, it could be a crazy driver in traffic but your response will determine if your day will be happy and peaceful.

So think before you speak or react to the things around you today, I’m sure you will see a difference in how well your day goes. If others want to be miserable let them, it doesn’t mean you have to be.

Motivate Yourself

Make you’re your Monday Great !!!