It’s been three years today, Im glad I haven’t stopped blogging. Sometimes I take pauses because life gets in the way but never stop. I love blogging I share my life and the people around me, I just want people to learn the life lessons I have learned. I pray that you all receive the messages, thanks for continuing to read,rock and roll with me.
The year is not over we are just at the halfway point. There are goals to accomplish,there are plans to be put in place, and people to meet and impact. It’s time to reboot and spring into action for the next 6 months of the year.
Think about what you want to accomplish and complete by Dec. 31. Will you be able to finish within that timeline, remember to be realistic and consider all possibilities and outcomes.
Make a plan and go for it. Don’t worry about what others are doing focus on self and what you set out to do. So what he/she completed 3 goals that’s their life but you completing one, is one more than you accomplished before.
Go for the goal, and get it done.
Im praying for your journey …
YOU CAN DO IT !!!
Over the years I have realized that time by yourself allows you to get to know yourself. When you are around others we are more prone to compare ourselves to our peers. Or we began to model ourselves behind someone else. You were fearfully, wonderfully and uniquely created, set apart. We are not meant to be just like anyone else. Carbon copies are meant for paper not people.
Take time for yourself get to know you what you like what you don’t like. Learn your ways what annoys you and what makes you smile. Discover your favorite past times, explore a new area in your city, find a new hobby, learn you. If you spend all your time with someone else be it a friend a significant other you will never know yourself and who you are without the addition of someone else.
I know people who have never been without a mate, they don’t know themselves without having a partner. The sad thing is I don’t know them without that significant other.
Allow yourself and the people around you to get to know the real true you.
So many times we hear from doctors and medical professionals that after the age of 35 women are more at risk for producing children with physical and mental disabilities. I didn’t realize until now that this statement affected my thoughts about not wanting children. After years of putting my life on hold and assisting with raising my nieces and nephew I had thoughts of not having children. It was hard for me to considering having my own children because of some of the difficulties that came along with my nieces, and the fact that I was single Sally for so long and still am single. As each year goes by and I get older or more mature as I like to say, I see everyone around me having children getting married creating families and most of them are younger than me. Over the past 5 years baby fever has definitely hit me hard, the problem is I’m still single. I’m happy being me just waiting for the right person.
At this point in time most women would say their biological clock is ticking and they need to hurry up and have children. I believe that God will allow it all to happen in His timing.
For the women out there who are watching that biological clock you’re wasting time, focus on what’s positive in your life, your career,hobbies,great friends and family, god-child and most importantly your relationship with God. God will provide in His timing,prayer and faith should be your focus not watching a biological clock.
The Phenomenal Woman Maya Angelou would have been 90 years old today. Honoring a woman who inspired me to write and to be a strong positive woman that’s a force to be reckoned with.
I know many of you have heard the saying “Bloom where you are planted.” This saying is perfect for the spring time, simply because this is the time of year flowers bloom. Sometimes there are new seeds planted some bloom up from previously being planted.
We all have seeds planted within us and there is a time for them to bloom. Some of us try to bloom to early becauae we see the progress of others around us. You must realize its a time for roses, tulips, carnations, lilys etc. Don’t be envious of early bloomers. Know that proper timing and watering will allow you to bloom when you are suppose to bloom.We can apply this way of thinking to multiple areas of life.
Also remember not to uproot your self because you are not blooming as fast as you would like. Having patience for growth is key to a beautiful bloom. In addition, consider that the good and the bad around you contributes to your growth. Allow the Son (Sun) to shine on you, also be receptive of the watering it helps to promote your growth. Others speaking positivity into your life symbolizes the water which cultivates your growth and blooming into what you are suppose to be.